
Uncross Your Fingers
“The greatest obstacle to living is expectancy, which hangs upon tomorrow and loses today. You are arranging what lies in Fortune’s control, and abandoning what lies in yours. What are you looking towards? To what goal are you straining?”
—Seneca
Letters From A Stoic
Living in anticipation of the future can be an insidious trap. Every moment you spend waiting for what's next is a moment you're not truly living in the present.
Remember, obsessing over tomorrow wastes today. How often do you catch yourself saying "I'll be happy when..." or "Once I achieve X, I'll finally start Y"?
In doing so, you surrender your current happiness and potential action to the whims of fortune—factors outside your control. Meanwhile, the present day, which is wholly yours to shape and enjoy, slips by unnoticed.
Take a moment to reflect on where your focus lies. Are you fixating on a promotion, a new house, or another milestone? While these are significant goals, don't let them become all-consuming at the expense of today.
Instead, anchor yourself in the now by taking small, deliberate actions that you can control.
Check-in with yourself: What can I accomplish today? What simple joys can I savor right now?
When you shift your lens from distant horizons to the immediate landscape, you carve a path toward a fulfilled and purposefully lived life—one present moment at a time.
