Let Them Laugh
Let Them Laugh
August 31st
“If you have an earnest desire towards philosophy, prepare yourself from the very first to have the multitude laugh and sneer, and say, "They are returned to us a philosopher all at once", and "Whence this conceited look?" Now, for your part, do not have a supercilious look indeed, but keep steadily to those things which appear best to you, as one appointed by the almighty to this particular station. For remember that, if you are persistent, those very persons who at first ridiculed will afterwards admire you. But if you are conquered by them, you will incur a double ridicule.”
—Epictetus
Enchiridion
Embarking on a journey of philosophical growth, you might as well expect some backlash.
As you start pondering deeper matters and maybe even reshaping your life based on your newfound convictions, those around you might be quick to mock or question your actions. They'll see a change—a shift in focus or seriousness—and might tease you for suddenly becoming a 'philosopher.' Epictetus wants you to anticipate this and not respond with arrogance or haughtiness, but instead stay true to your path, almost as if you've been chosen for this role.
In your journey, do you notice these sorts of reactions when you try to improve yourself? Can you recognize the opportunity to stay grounded and committed regardless of the outside noise?
It's a classic tale—first, they mock; then, they admire.
Consistency and resilience in the face of adversity or ridicule often leads to respect. If you give in to the critics and abandon your path, you suffer twice: you lose your way, and you become the butt of jokes for faltering.
However, if you persist, the very people who doubted you may come to respect you for your unshakeable dedication.
