Make Lemonade
“On the occasion of every accident that befalls you, remember to turn to yourself and inquire what power you have for turning it to use.”
—Epictetus
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When life throws curveballs your way, you might feel like ducking or running for cover.
But wait—there's another option.
Epictetus is nudging you to do something a bit unconventional: turn inward and search for your own inner toolkit. Before you let frustration or defeat set in, pose a powerful question to yourself: “What abilities do I possess that can transform this obstacle into an opportunity?” It's a practice in resilience, like having a Swiss Army knife for the soul.
Maybe your patience, creativity, or resourcefulness is precisely what's needed to tackle the issue at hand.
Every hiccup in your day is a moment to flex those stoic muscles. Epictetus encourages you to look for the silver lining—not as wishful thinking, but as a strategic move.
Next time life takes an unexpected turn, seize the moment to ask yourself what strengths you can apply.
You'll be surprised at how often a shift in perspective can turn the tide in your favor.