When someone wrongs us, it's easy to get caught up in the heat of the moment, to let anger and thoughts of revenge consume us.

But take a moment to assess the situation: was this person acting from a place of weakness? Perhaps out of insecurity or ignorance? If so, choose compassion over retaliation.

Ask yourself, what do you gain from striking back at someone who is already down? Isn't there more strength and dignity in forgiveness and in choosing to guide or educate rather than to punish?

On the flip side, if someone who has caused you harm is in a position of greater strength, consider what's at stake before you act. Is the cost of fighting back worth the potential consequences? Sometimes, the wisest move is to conserve your energy and protect your well-being rather than entering an uphill battle.

Think about a time when you faced someone who held more power—maybe a boss, a parent, or even an institution. Was the satisfaction of a quick sharp response worth more than the long-term benefits of patience and strategy?

Handling the situation with prudence doesn't mean you accept defeat. It means you're playing the long game, placing your welfare above the immediacy of your pride.