Do Right And Adjust Accordingly
“One should always have these two rules in readiness. First, to do only what the reason of your ruling and legislating faculties suggest for the service of mankind. Second, to change your opinion whenever anyone at hand sets you right and unsettles you in an opinion. But this change of opinion should come only because you are persuaded that something is just or to the public advantage, not because it appears pleasant or increases your reputation.”
—Marcus Aurelius
Meditations
In our daily hustle, it’s easy to chase after what feels good or what might make us look better in the eyes of others.
Our first rule should be to act based on rational thought—pondering deeply about how our actions will serve others. Each decision we make should be like a carefully considered law, aiming for the greater good rather than self-gratification. So, ask yourself: Are the choices you’re making rooted in service to those around you?
Now, the Stoics were no strangers to the idea that humans are fallible. That’s where our second rule comes into play. Stay open-minded and receptive to others who might correct your course.
But—and this is crucial—don't just flip-flop on whims. Change your stance when reason shows you a more just or beneficial path.
Here's your real-life checkpoint: When was the last time you altered a belief because it was right, not just because it was popular or felt comfortable?
Hold firm to conviction, yes, but let that conviction be movable by reason and the common good.