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Decide Then Do

April 5th

“First say to yourself what you would be, and then do what you have to do.”

—Epictetus

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Imagine you have a vision of the person you want to become—perhaps it's more patient, disciplined, or kind-hearted.

Keeping this image in mind creates a blueprint for your behavior. In daily life, you encounter numerous choices: to lash out in impatience or pause and respond calmly, to scroll through social media or pick up a book, to pass by a person in need or extend a helping hand. Before each choice, remind yourself of that vision: who do you wish to be in this moment?

This self-dialogue is your compass, guiding each step to align with your ideal self.

Epictetus encourages us to match our actions with our aspirations. Every day is filled with mundane tasks—answering emails, doing dishes, attending meetings. They might seem trivial, but they're the building blocks of your character. If you aspire to be organized and focused, then tackle each task with attention and purpose.

Can you see these daily doings as practice for the greater discipline you aim to embody?

Each action is an opportunity to reinforce the person you're striving to be—whether it's as a loving parent, a dedicated artist, or a compassionate friend.

What simple action can you take today that reflects the best version of yourself?

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