Enjoy Things Fully
“The time of the actual enjoyment is short and swift, and made much shorter through their own fault. For they dash from one pleasure to another and cannot stay steady in one desire.”
—Seneca
Letters From A Stoic
In our fast-paced world, it's easy to get caught up in the chase for pleasure.
Seneca's insight reminds us that true enjoyment often slips through our fingers because we're too busy reaching for the next thrill. Consider your own experiences: how often do you savor your morning coffee, or really immerse yourself in the joy of a good conversation?
Instead, we may already be scrolling through our phones, planning the next activity, or worrying about our endless to-do lists. Our inability to stay present and content with one delight means we're actually experiencing less of it.
Now, imagine if we approached our days as an opportunity to fully engage with each individual pleasure. By deciding to slow down and focus on one desire at a time, the quality of our experiences drastically improves.
Picture savoring that single piece of chocolate without simultaneously browsing the internet, or enjoying the park with your kids without mentally checking out for a work email.
Consciously choose to stay steady with your desires instead of being pulled in different directions. Wouldn’t that simple shift enable you to find deeper satisfaction in the everyday moments that make up our lives?