Accept Faults To Fix Them
“If you wish to be good, first believe that you are bad.”
—Epictetus
Enchiridion
Recognizing our faults is the first step towards self-improvement. True goodness arises from a position of humility.
Think about the last time you snapped at a friend or ignored a chance to help someone. It's uncomfortable to admit our shortcomings, isn't it? Yet, it is only by acknowledging that we're not as virtuous as we could be that we set the stage for growth. This is an invitation to practice self-reflection daily.
Could an honest look at today reveal a moment where you fell short of being your best self?
Becoming a better person is a continuous journey that begins with self-awareness, not self-exaltation. As you go about your day, be vigilant of moments when pride or denial might mask an opportunity for improvement. When you catch yourself turning a blind eye to your flaws, pause and consider: What aspects of my character am I avoiding?
By embracing the belief that we have the capacity to be 'bad,' we empower ourselves to choose differently, to choose goodness with each little decision. This way, each day unfolds as a canvas for small but meaningful changes, as we inch ever closer to the person we aspire to be.