Imagine this: You've become friends with someone primarily because they're handy to have around. They fix your computer issues, offer lifts when your car is at the mechanic, or maybe they're great at throwing parties.

But as Seneca points out, such friendships are akin to business transactions. When their usefulness evaporates—perhaps they change jobs or you move to a different neighborhood—the friendship often withers. This begs the question: do you value the person, or the convenience they provide?

Now, take a look at your own relationships. Are you someone's friend for who they are, or for what they can do for you? It's a tough pill to swallow, acknowledging that we might sometimes slip into the pragmatism of friendship rather than its essence. Nevertheless, consider nurturing your relationships beyond utility—appreciate the person, not just the perks.

The next time your friend is in no position to offer you anything but their company, cherish that. It's in those moments—the ones free from transactions—that the purest friendships grow.