You Can't Change Human Nature
“Do what you will. Even if you tear yourself apart, most people will continue doing the same things.”
—Marcus Aurelius
Meditations
Despite how frantic your efforts to change or impress others may be, they often go unnoticed.
It's a wake-up call to recognize the futility in overextending ourselves for the sake of outside approval or trying to control what is not ours to command—the thoughts and actions of other people.
Consider the times you've worked late to perfect a project, hoping for recognition, only to find that life for everyone else remained unchanged. Is it worth tearing yourself apart for an applause that may never come?
This quote invites us to question our motivations and to act with intention, focusing on what truly matters to us. It suggests living life according to our own principles and values, rather than being swayed by the fleeting attention or approval of others.
Have you ever changed your plans, hoping others would notice and appreciate the sacrifice? How did it make you feel when they didn't?
Marcus suggests we direct that energy inward, cultivating self-reliance and inner peace rather than seeking validation from a crowd that's engrossed in their own performance.