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“Philosophy is good advice, and no one can give advice at the top of their lungs.”
—Seneca
Letters From A Stoic
Take a moment to think about times when you’ve been bombarded with opinions, especially during heated debates or confrontations. How often do you actually take in what's being yelled over the din?
Seneca reminds us here that true wisdom isn't something that can be forced upon you through high volume or intensity.
Philosophy—genuine, life-changing advice—needs a calm, composed delivery to take root. It's like trying to water a plant during a storm; the nourishment it offers is best absorbed when presented gently, not amidst a torrent of chaos.
So, ask yourself: How do you listen to advice, and how do you offer it to others?
Next time you’re on the verge of forcefully sharing your ‘two cents,’ pause and consider a softer approach. Conversely, when someone is trying to offer you guidance in a less-than-calm manner, ask yourself if there’s a kernel of wisdom there, waiting to be heard in a quieter moment.
Real growth and understanding are fostered in environments of respect and reflection, not in the cacophony of high-strung emotions. As you go through your day, strive to be the person who speaks and listens thoughtfully, because the best advice often comes from a place of stillness and contemplation.
Can you recall a time when a quiet insight made a profound impact on you?