Keep It To Yourself
“Those proficient praise no one, blame no one, and accuse no one. They say nothing concerning their self as being anybody or knowing anything.”
—Epictetus
Enchiridion
Life often feels like a chaotic, noisy marketplace of opinions, where everyone is quick to praise or blame, to boast or to judge.
But imagine moving through your day embodying the essence of stoic serenity that Epictetus describes. Rather than spending your energy on passing judgment or seeking validation, you focus on your own actions and attitudes. You don't need the applause to validate your work, nor do you need to condemn others to feel better about yourself.
Can you recall a recent situation where you could have spared the critique and stayed silent instead? Imagine the power of that silence.
Epictetus is inviting us to think of wisdom as a quiet force, one that doesn't need to declare itself to be felt. That knowing nod, the patient smile that comes from understanding—not from ignorance, but from a deep respect for the complexity of life and the knowledge that true mastery speaks through action, not words.
What would your day look like if you dropped the social performances and focused solely on your personal growth and conduct? Challenge yourself today to interact with the world like a stoic sage—observing, acting with intent, and learning in silence.
How might this transform your relationships and your peace of mind?