There's Pain In Wrongdoing
“To expect punishment is to suffer it, and to earn it is to expect it.”
—Seneca
Letters From A Stoic
Living with the dread of consequence can be as taxing as enduring the punishment itself.
Consider how often your mind races ahead, imagining the fallout of a mistake or a poor decision. The anxiety and fear that brew within can cripple you, stealing your present for a future that may not even unfold as you fear.
Are you allowing the specter of punishment to shadow your day-to-day experiences, causing you to suffer before anything has actually happened?
On the flip side, when you've actually erred, knowingly anticipating the repercussions is a form of self-imposed discipline, a recognition of the universal principle of cause and effect.
It's essential to take ownership of our actions and their potential outcomes, and it's equally important to engage with the present and not be paralyzed by what's to come.
Ask yourself, are you mentally punishing yourself for past mistakes instead of actively working towards making amends or embracing growth from those experiences?
Remember, the stoic approach isn't about inviting needless suffering but cultivating resilience and learning from every turn life takes.